Top Ten Signs of Men Cheating

You are obviously already suspicious of your man. There has been something that has caused you to become suspicious. Call it intuition or you've found something that just isn't right. So what are the signs that you should be looking for to indicate a cheater?

I'm about to tell you the signs but first I have a few caveats to these "signs". I want you to remember that there can be good explanations for these behaviors that have nothing to do with cheating. If you can see several of these signs then it's a good indication that you should dig a little deeper to see if something really is going on. Also, I've known some guys who did not display any of these signs but were cheating just the same.

Just think of the following list as individual red flags that indicate something could be going on. Get enough of these red flags and you need to investigate further. O.K.?

Here we go with the red flag sign's of a cheating man:

• Are Your Friends Acting Strange? Most "friends" will not tell you what they know for fear of hurting you and ruining the friendship you share. This always puts a strain on them and changes the way they behave around you.

• Is Your Man Spending More Time On-line? An increase in Internet time could indicate an affair because of time spent chatting or instant messaging. This is not a strong indicator, as I've said there are good reasons for this behavior.

• Have You Caught Your Man in a Lie? People lie for various reasons. What you should do here is look for a connection that could indicate an affair.

• Are You Arguing More Often? If your man is starting an argument for no apparent reason and then storming out, he could be making an excuse to be away from you that you would not normally think of as being connected with an affair.

• Is Your Man Leaving the Room Every Time He Gets a Cell Phone Call? It may not just be polite behavior. Especially if it is a change from the way he acted in the past. If you are able to look at his cell phone call log you can check any strange or repetitive numbers by reverse phone search to see who the number belongs too.
  

• Is Your Man Changing His Appearance? Better Hygiene and a new drive to workout and get in shape may indicate a new woman in his life.

• Is Your Man Less Affectionate? A sudden lack of interest in you sexually can indicate another woman. If he doesn't want to cuddle, or hold hands when it used to be a normal thing is a very strong sign.

• Has Your Man Accused You of Cheating? Your guy may be trying to hide his affair by shifting blame to you and taking your attention away from him. Blame shifting is a common ploy we learn as children and is a very effective way to keep you off balance.

• Is He Spending More Time at Work and Less with You? Working late is a very commonly used excuse to cover time spent with another woman. It's not always a sure sign, your man could have been promoted, received new responsibilities or started a new project that requires his attention. So, take your time to think about this one.

• Has His Car Been Changed? Has the passenger seat been moved? Is there a new radio station programed into memory? Are you finding hair on the passenger seat thats different than yours?

All these signs indicate the possibility that your man is cheating on you. Please, don't try to convict him based solely on these signs. Look for hard evidence that shows an affair really is going on before you confront your man.